I have never had a ‘real’ orgasm and am too anxious to have sex with my boyfriend

I am a 24-year-old virgin. The only means of masturbation I have employed since my teens has been clitoral stimulation and have never had a “real” orgasm (I read online about mini-orgasms you can have with clitorial stimulation and it seems a close fit to what I experience). Even though there is no lack of desire between me and my boyfriend, and even though I enjoy everything he does, I never become fully aroused. This compounds the issue of my boyfriend being unable to penetrate me during sex. I can comfortably pass one finger in at best. I tried to use a menstrual cup, but could barely get a tenth of it in. In light of this discovery I feel anxious every time we try to have sex because I know penetration is impossible and I end up losing my drive. Is this normal given my sexual inactivity or is there reason to consult a gynaecologist?

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